People say, you can not change the environment, but can change their own; you can not change the facts, but can change attitudes; you can not change the past, but can be changed now; you can not control other people, but can be masters of our own; you can not do everything well, but can be conscientious in everything; you can not about the weather, but you can change the mood; you can not choose looks, but it can show a smile.
人说,你改变不了环境,但可以改变自己;你改变不了事实,但可以改变态度;你改变不了过去,但可以改变现在;你不能控制他人,但可以掌握自己;你不能样样顺利,但可以事事尽心;你不能左右天气,但可以改变心情;你不能选择容貌,但可以展现笑容。
Indeed, one key to the success lies in his (her) mind. The difference between successful people and the losers are: winners will be setbacks and difficulties due to personal ability, experience, imperfect, to emphasize the inherent, they are willing to continuously improve and develop the right direction; and the losers will blame on the opportunity, and the environment injustice, emphasizing external and uncontrollable factors that created the position of their life, they always complain, wait and give up!
的确,一个人能否成功的关键还在于他(她)的心态。成功人士与失败者的差异是:成功者将挫折、困难归因于个人能力、经验的不完善,强调内在,他们乐意不断向好的方向改进和发展;而失败者则怪罪于机遇、环境的不公,强调外在、不可控制的因素造就了他们的人生位置,他们总是抱怨、等待与放弃!
In many cases, is a humble person who is looked down upon his own. Person's appearance, his family, and so a priori condition that can not be changed, but at least inner state, the spirit of the will is entirely their own control. Mentality, the final decision of life high. There is no absolute bad thing, only the mentality of the absolute poor people. If even the state of mind will not adjust, how they deal with things more complicated than the mentality of it!